How to tell your boss you're quitting
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Tell your boss first, privately, in two sentences: you're leaving, and here is your last day. Then thank them and offer to help with the handover. In the US, two weeks is the standard notice period; elsewhere, follow your contract and local rules.
What to do
- Have the offer in writing first. Don't resign until you have a signed offer and a confirmed start date.
- Book a short private meeting. Ask for 15 minutes, in person or on video. Your boss should hear it from you before anyone else at work.
- Lead with the news. Say it in the first sentence. No long buildup, no list of complaints.
- Send a short letter right after. Email your resignation: your last day and a thank you. Nothing else needs to be in writing.
- Decide on a counteroffer in advance. If more money would make you stay, you should have asked earlier. If not, say kindly that your decision is made.
- Plan the handover. Write a list of your projects, their status and key contacts. Be ready in case they ask you to leave sooner than planned.
What to say
In the meeting, you can say:
Thanks for making the time. I wanted you to hear it from me first: I've accepted another offer, and my last day will be [date]. I've learned a lot here, especially from you. I'll make the handover as smooth as I can, and you'll have a list of my projects by [day].
Avoid
- Telling coworkers before your boss.
- Listing every reason you're unhappy.
- Coasting through your notice period: people remember how you leave.
Questions
Do I have to give two weeks' notice?
In the US, most employment is at will, so unless a contract says otherwise, notice is a custom rather than a legal duty. Giving it protects your reputation and your references.
Can I quit by email?
If your boss is remote or hard to reach, yes, but a call first is kinder. Follow any conversation with a short written letter.
What if my boss gets angry?
Stay calm and don't argue. Repeat your last day and your offer to help, end the meeting, and send your letter.